There was a jam last night in Austin, I was not the DJ. It was done by song request. They guy who wanted to be in the jam circle made a very specific song request. When the DJ played the song, he and his friends were there ready to start their jam. Of course, it had to be a really fast to work.Lawrence wrote: I agree, completely, again. (What's going on here, Kevin?) Part of my point earlier that got lost in my sarcasm (and I suspect the implied point of Greg's post I quoted) is that there is something a little lame about your scene/venue/crowd if a song, itself, inspires a jam. The problems we all have with "Jump Jive and Wail" or "Sing, Sing, Sing" are not that they are bad songs, per se, just that we (at least I and many others) am sick of them because they not only got overplayed, but that a damn jam broke out automatically if they ever were played. Everyone's dance gets interrupted, all so a few people can scream "woo" to the same 5 couples in any given scene who break out the same played-out moves each and every time. It's "neat-o keen, Daddy-o" for newbies, and an ego-boost for the participants, but it REALLY gets boring after you have seen those moves every week for the past three months.
I'm obviously not a fan of jams and feel somewhat proud to have played my own small part in all but eliminating them as a point of social etiquette in Austin. (The social taboo against being a show-off). It's really not because I'm bitter about not being able to bust it out in a jam, even though there are some other personal biases at work against them in that they bring the dark side of my competitive personality out. And it's not that they are inherently evil, but they get out of hand.
I also recognize that some people do like jams and I don't mind if they get their way, too. However, if and when jams happen, they should be more spontaneous than pre-programmed or inspired by little more than the song the DJ plays.
Would not have happened during your set, you would probably not honor the request. Heck, they probably know better than to ask.